In all my life, I have heard the famous lines –
 
“Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus”
“Men are like Waffles and Women are like Spaghetti”
 
You know how it goes…
 
Men are different
-and women are complicated (or so they say).

In my short 33 years or life, I’ve learned a few lessons myself. They follow the same line of the famous authors above; however, I feel the need to journal my own experiences and share my profound wisdom with others;o)

Truth be told…  Men are weird!

  • They are slow and cautious.
  • They usually think through things before jumping in head first.
  • They are sometimes indecisive and do not want to decide what to eat or drink at the end of a long day.
  • They use little words to communicate yet they actually mean EXACTLY what they say.
  • hey work hard (well, most men) and will prove themselves at even a small wage to show you they have heart for what they do, they can and will provide.
  • They will bend over backwards for those who they care about but this is a two way street.
Some of these things annoy me to no end but they are the exact same things I love about them!!

They may not give you attention 24hrs a day but they do little things that make all the difference to me.

My personal favorites from experienced:
  • Making sure I have a coat when I’m shivering and cold.
  • Making sure I’m safe when I have a look of terror on my face.
  • Making sure I am not pushing myself too much.
  • Helping me reach my goals and dreams!
  • Offering to drive, over and over – and that extra willingness to pick me up!
  • Offering to help me investigate big decisions, like buying a car, because they want to make sure I make a wise decision.
  • Hauling heavy bags, trunks and boxes of mine so that I don’t have to break my own back.
It’s simply when they go out of their way in the small things – the details!
They make ALL the difference when they show me HOW MUCH they actually care!